PhDoing Life

Philosophy Graduate Student

Interested primarily in normative ethics and social philosophy

Why being vulnerable with your advisors is the right thing to do

I am struggling. And, until a few days ago, the fact that I was struggling – especially that I was visibly struggling – was making me struggle that much more. It was a vicious cycle that I found myself in, until I finally broke. I emailed my advisors asking for an extension of just four days. But I wasn’t sure how they’d take it.

Alternative answers to “So, what do you plan to do with that degree?”

Does anyone else get tired of hearing the question “So, what do you plan on doing with that?” whenever you tell them your academic plans? Being home for the holidays has meant answering that question a total of eight times already. So, I’ve decided to have some fun with it instead of justifying the same career plans over and over.

The failure to address mental health in academia until it’s too late

I was dismissed from my PhD program at the end of my second year. Around the same time, my then-husband and I separated and eventually divorced, my dog died, and my anxiety and depression came out to party. I was also on academic probation, when I found out I was about to be immediately laid off.

Surviving the first week of my PhD program with imposter syndrome

You don’t belong here. You aren’t this smart. You will flounder. You aren’t as good as your application says. Your advisor probably thinks they made a mistake. You’re already disappointing them – I felt completely overwhelmed and the little voice in my head got louder.